back again

It’s been too long since I wrote here, and I do have the lamest (but valid) excuse: I got busy.

I am quite amused by the fact that I get bitten by the blogging bug for just a few reasons 1) when I’m bored 2) when I can’t sleep 3) when I’m emotionally distraught.  This time the reasons would be #2 and #3.

It’s 1:35 am right now, and quite frankly, I should really be sleeping since I have a full day of work tomorrow. On the other hand, I have been tossing and turning in my bed for the last 2 hours trying to sleep, but finding I am unable to because I am wrestling with some thoughts that have been nagging me since yesterday. You know, the “what ifs” “why not’s” “why’s” “how”, all jumbled with feelings of annoyance, sadness, depression, confusion and anxiety. I’ve done what I’ve always done, that is to pray and tell all to God…after a sudden wave of bawling and snot, I did feel better. Perhaps it’s hormonal? Who knows…I’m not as young as I was.

But one thing that was bothering me…was the fear of changes taking place. Changes happening in people, changes happening with work situations, changes with relationships, friendships, connections…all those things.  It’s safe to say I have gotten adjusted with life here in California, and my family and career seems to be in a good place..finances could be better (honestly speaking), yet I am very thankful for having just what I need and an occasional pleasure of small luxuries.

My recent visit to New York though reawakened my constant longing to be in the companion of my east coast family and close and trusted friends. I immensely miss my friends, my church. While I do have a wonderful boyfriend here, and he has been very supportive in every way.  I have to admit, though, I do feel at a lost when he goes and spends time with his friends and I am again brought to the realization: that I haven’t made many friends here that I felt as close to as the ones I have back home. I’ve wondered about that…I know I have tried in the last two years but I have to admit, my various work schedules don’t leave me much time to actually bond and connect with other people. Besides, everyone I meet around here either has a family, a partner or have established (and many times exclusive) circle of friends. Sounds silly right? Sometimes I feel like I moved into a town of suburban sororities…  Sometimes, I feel like I’m losing a very big part of me and I am trying to figure out how to restore this balance again. And to be quite honest, sometimes I feel tempted to move back east coast…my life there was a lot…different, and I rarely felt alone.  But I could be wrong. Again, it could be hormones (man, it’s tough to be a woman).

A good friend of mine did suggest I start looking into volunteer organizations, so I can meet people with like-minded, cause-oriented or art-related interests…but then again, the bigger problem is time. I work 6 days and most of the time I am just tired! I’ve thought of cutting down work days, but in this economic struggle everybody is going through, I really don’t have a choice! Whoever said life in America is easier? Not these days!

My goal throughout this year was basically survival. A lot of changes took place this year: now working in 4 different dental offices (hence the 6 day work week), I moved to my own apartment, got my first car (driving still scares me sometimes), grew more gray hairs, was told I was pre-diabetic, eyesight got worse, constant back, neck and elbow issues… well let’s just say there were days when i thought that it sucked being a grown-up. But even if that is the case, at the end of the day, we all still have so many things to be thankful for.

The other night I was having a conversation with my Mom and she said a few things that really stuck with me. She said that all the things we have (material possessions, work, relationships, etc) are all given to us by God. But many times, we forget that important point. We hold on to them as if they were really our own, forgetting that God could choose to have us return it to Him, or He can just take it back, for a better and greater purpose. So while we have those “things” we should never take them for granted, and always be thankful that we have exactly what we need (not always what we want).

She said that these days, more so, people have become so materialistic, and Christmastime has slowly become that…a huge buying season. Since when has buying expensive, over-the-top items been a valid expression of how much you care for a person? Well, sadly..since a long time ago! I was at the mall today, to catch up on this Christmas shopping, and my oh my…it could’ve been Halloween because people grow fangs trying to weasel the best bargain out of retail stores. And let’s not even talk about parking… ugh..

Okay… it’s 2:20 am and this has not helped me get sleepy at all! hahaha. I’m gonna try to force myself to sleep for the 4th time.

Goodnight world!

Legal Thriller

While reminiscing about New York, I got reminded of this:

I believe it was around February 2009 when I took an after-work trip to Barnes & Noble at 14th St. Union Square. Lo and behold, John Grisham was speaking and promoting his (then) new book. I read a lot of Grisham novels as a teenager, and perhaps read about 2 in the last 10 years. I just had to get this then (got one for my brother and my best friend who shared her enthusiasm for his work).

Over a year later, the same book I bought for myself, I still have not read. Shame, shame. So I’ll take a look at what it is about.

I suppose tonight is the curl-up-in-my-room-and-read-a-long-novel-while-it-rains kinda night. Only thing missing is hot chocolate, my old piglet slippers my pink fluffy bathrobe, and the frigid temperature then it will feel like I was in the east coast again.

Cozy. (But forget about the frigid temperature part. I DON’T miss that)

something wonderful…

…happens when “nature feels with us”. Something inside just connects all over again with Him who created everything. It’s quite comforting that when we feel like shedding some tears, nature cries with us. Or when we are happy the sun shines with us.  Or when we feel troubled, we see some gray clouds in the sky.  I’m not gonna go behind theology or spirituality of saying “cast our worries on Him” (although that is very true! we should).  But my point with this matter is that for myself, my mind goes, “Thank you God, for knowing exactly how I feel.” He is being a Dad to me right now.

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His breath wraps around us like the wind,

We feel His fingertips touch us through the leaves that fall,

Through every event, big or small, orchestrated in His time

He reminds us He’s got everything under control.

Thank You that through it all, You  never leave us alone.

Fall/Rain

From where I am, heavy rains are about to fall.  In my heart I know some other kinds of storms are brewing up ahead, but that’s okay.
Nothing is new under the sun.  I am encouraged today by these verses:

“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” (Corinthians 4:8-12)

“The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.” (Proverbs 21:5)

Good Manners

I think everybody appreciates them, correct? I know I appreciate people with manners and value a true gentleman.

The following is an excerpt from Julie Yap-Daza’s book about manners. Saw this excerpt in Discover the Joy of Life blog. We  can all learn a thing or two!

Hello! Hello!

Use the telephone only when you have to….whether it’s your own telephone,your office phone, or someone else’s phone, but especially when it’s not your phone.

Whether you are calling or being called, keep the conversation short. It is good manners to keep the telephone free for others to use.

When you have dialed a wrong number, say ‘Sorry.’ It sounds almost as good as ‘Hello.’

On the telephone, your voice is you. Do not sound indifferent, irritated, or intimidating. If the call is not for you, offer to take a message.

Save Lives. Know How, Where and When to Cross the Street.

1. Use the pedestrian lane. It is usually marked w/ white stripes.
2. When there is ni pedestrian lane, cross from corner to corner.

MOTORISTS MUST RESPECT PEDESTRIANS.

They come to a full stop as soon as a pedestrian puts his/her foot on the pedestrian lane. When approaching an intersection, motorists slow down and stop for the sake of pedestrians crossing or about to cross. BUT PEDESTRIANS MUST RESPECT THEIR OWN VULNERABILITY.

Don’t Court Danger. Don’t be a jaywalker. A jaywalker darts between cars, takes short cuts and risks his own life and those of others.

WINDOW SHOPPING is a wonderful pastime. However, as you browse from window to window, be aware that other people on the sidewalk do not have the kind of time that you have.
LET THEM PASS. Be mindful of what you are doing and where you are going so they don’t bump into you or you into them.

DON’T BLOW YOUR HORN UNNECESSARILY, and don’t blow your horn when you
know it’s useless to do so.

The Mall is ALL

The mall is all the church (or temple), park, and marketplace used to be. This is where everyone goes to do everything – shop, eat, browse, people-watch, kill time, meet friends, play video games,
keep a rendezvous.

YOU CANNOT AVOID PEOPLE IN A MALL. Because it is so publicly shared, is important to each and every private individual. You don’t want others intruding into your space, any more than they want you in theirs. In short, let’s all have some mall manners.

1. Don’t hold up the queue.
2. DOn’t crowd; it’s crowded enough as it is.
3. DOn’t be rowdy if you’re a group.
4. Don’t be a bully in the parking lot.
5. If you’re waiting for the elevator, let the people inside get out first before you rush in.

In the elevator, if you have to talk, keep voices low. Better still, wait to get off before you begin your conversation.

Make way for others in the corridors, hallways, escalators, stairs.

Don’t obstruct traffic. Don’t sit on the stairs. Don’t block exits and entrances.

Throw litter in the trash can. Use the toilet as if it were your own.

RESPECT THE RIGHT OF OTHERS TO ENJOY THEMSELVES AND HAVE
A GOOD TIME.

Ladies and Gentlemen! 

Introductions are a killer if you depend on complicated, old-fashioned rules of who to introduce to whom. The most simple rule to remember is THE WOMAN’S NAME IS MENTIONED FIRST.

For example: “Lydia, I’d like you to meet David.” Or, “Lydia, this is David.” Once you know this rule by heart, it will be easy for you to remember that the name of the older and more important person is mentioned first.

“Sister Agnes, this is my cousin Bobby.” And, “Your Excellency, may i present to you my wife, Jane.”

• A gentleman stands up to meet a lady, whether she is older or younger.
• A lady does not have to stand up to be introduced to a man unless he is older or enjoys a higher rank. She does not have to stand up for a younger person or someone her age.
• A gentleman waits for a lady to offer her hand for a handshake.

A woman wants to be treated like a lady even if she is an advocate of women’s lib, women’s rights, and equality of the sexes. Deep down in her heart, she still wants a man to open the door for her, pull a chair for her, pay for dinner.

A man who treats her like a lady has everything to gain, especially a good reputation.

Ladies first, as they always say. the lady is first to walk through an open door, to sit, to order a drink or food in the restaurant.

There is one exception to this rule. She does not precede the gentleman when they are going down the stairs or an escalator. The man goes ahead. Once they arrived at the landing, the gentleman gently takes her by the elbow and guides her to where they have to go.

On the sidewalk, the gentleman walks on the side near the street. In the theater, the lady, if she is escorted by a gentleman, does not take an aisle seat. That’s for her escort.

WHEN THEY ARE CROSSING THE STREET, THE GENTLEMAN GOES TO THE SIDE WHERE THE CARS ARE COMING FROM. (yay, E.P you get this right all the time! – peanut)

TABOO

Gentleman and ladies don’t give each other intimate gifts of a personal nature unless they are lovers, engaged to be married, or married to each other. (In my opinion, they shouldn’t until they are engaged or married! -peanut)

DON’T GIVE UNDERWEAR, expensive jewelry, anything that could be misconducted. For example, why give him deodorant unless you’re trying to say he has B.O. (body odor)?

When a man and woman are out on a date in a restaurant, she does not tell the waiter her order. She tells it to her escort, who will tell the waiter. The gentleman saves the day by asking her before she has a chance to collar the waiter. What would you like to have? the gentleman asks the lady.

Lesson: Lady, wait for your date to ask. If the waiter has not been properly trained and he asks you instead of him, pretend you’re still trying to make up your mind. Read the menu or turn to your date and give him the cue, “SHOULD WE GO FOR THE BLUE MARLIN OR THE LOBSTER
THERMIDOR?”

WHO PAYS???

It’s an Oriental tradition that the gentleman pays. But the lady should understand and offer to pay if:

• he is younger
• he is earning less
• it’s a Dutch treat and everybody pays for his and her own food and drinks.
• if he does not, don’t hold it against him–times are hard. if he does, don’t forget to say thank you (-peanut)
  

Q & A

Q. Should a woman invite a man to have luch or dinner with her?

A. Of course. This is the 90′s, remember? (this was written in the 90′s -peanut)

Q. How should she go about it?

A. Naturally, simply and sincerely. She should state her intention clearly, taking care not to come on too strong and eager. A professional reason is one of the least complicated ways to invite a man. For example, to go over the terms of her insurance policy with the manager or CEO who had convinced her to buy a policy in the first place; to discuss securities and investments with her banker; to acquire background information on a sensitive issue from a news source if she is a journalist.

Q. Who should pay?

A. The one who did the inviting. Nonetheless, most men won’t let the women
pay. But if he lets you pay for his lunch, don’t blame him.

DRESS UP, DRESS DOWN, DRESS RIGHT

IT IS BETTER TO UNDERDRESS THAN TO OVERDRESS. WHY?…

Because you do not call attention by sticking out like a sore thumb. By being under dressed, you can blend into the woodwork and hope that there are other who are similarly under dressed.

TO DRESS DOWN DOES NOT MEAN BEING SHABBY.
The truly stylish who dress down occasionally have learned a few basic rules by heart.

CLOTHES ARE IMMACULATELY CLEAN AND CLEANLY, SIMPLY CUT.

Simple is not plain or boring. Underplay colors by using noncolors – black, white, beige, tan, navy.
Use little or no jewelry.

NIGHTIME DRESSING, when the sun has gone down and people are in a playful, after-work mood, allows men and womenleeway in the choice of CLOTHING, STYLES, COLORS, ACCESSORIES, JEWELRY.

When daylight has faded and evening shadows move among the light cast   by moon and stars, candles, black, are appropriate. So is a bit more daring ind ressing, makeup or grooming, and jewelry.

NIGHT IS THE TIME FOR PARTIES, the theater, a romantic dinner set in the midst of crystal and silver. This is the time to break the rules for dressing by day.

• By day wear cotton or linen. By night, wear silk or satin.
• By day wear simple gold jewelry, pearls, a classic watch.
• By night, have fun and go funky, let your hair down. Go with the glow of colored stones if that is your caprice.
• Daytime, alight perfume or cologne is preferable to a musky, seductive scent.
• By day, wear an easy hairstyle, easy to comb.
• Wear all the black you want at night. Elsa
• Klensch of CNN says wear black not to play but to cut a dramatic figure.

Standing Before the Mirror

1. Sexy clothes are for sexy people to be worn to sexy places.
   (If you don’t like to draw sticky stares or ogling eyes, maybe you should reassess if you wear borderline skimpy attire.  I like Beth Moore’s saying… “Ladies, keep your breasts to yourselves!!” – peanut)
2. You can wear black shoes with almost aything but you can’t wear white shoes with black stockings or socks.
3. If you have to wear shoes, they must be clean and shined, in good condition for walking. Do not stand out in them because they’r dirty, grimy, and ready to fall apart. Ugly shoes are a sign of lack of manners and self-esteem.

BASIC GOOD GROOMING FOR MEN

1. Clip nose hairs!
2. Clip ear hairs.
3. Snip away (do not yank) loose threads in your suits, shirts, pants.
4. Polish shoes that need to be polished, wash shoes that need to be washed. Brush suede – not wax!
5. Keep your fingernails short and clean. Avoid that pink stuff they spread on parlor, it only makes you look like a vain, dirty old man.
6. Cut your toenails, straight across.
7. If you insist onw earing an earring, choose something small and subtle. Don’t go for the Pirate of the seven Seas look by wearing those awful gold hoops you could put a circus animal through.
8. Always check the limbs coming out of your suit.
9. Keep everything on your chest (TIE, JEWELRY, SHIRT) Free of stains and as wrinkle free as possible.
10. Short wash-and-wear hair is fine and can definitely be SEXY. If you’ve got long hair, tie it neatly into a no-nonsense ponyail at the back. If it’s not long enough, gel back smoothly and show your ears.
11. Can we allg et together and pledge a total ban on long, heavy gold chains proudly displayed through an open-till-the-belly-button shirt?
12. Shopping for a cologne? Bring your girlfriend, wife or special someone along. After all, she’ll be smelling you (and hopefully only you) the most. If she likes it and you like it, the salesgirl can say “SOLD!”

AND FOR THE LADIES…

1. DO something about your armpit hair! Shaving, they say, leaves armpits dark while plucking may cause infection. Hair remover doesn’t get it all out and waxing is as painful as ripping your skin off. So which method do you prefer? ……CHOOSE AND ACT!
2. If you’re one to shave your legs, please spare your boyfriend or husband the – yuck! – agony of brushing unprotected parts of his body against something that feels like a cheese grater. Not shaving regularly is about as attractive as braiding you nose hair.
3. NEVER remove your shoes in public, much less rub your toes and ankles together while you’re at it. If you think your toes are pretty enough to be edible, admire them in the privacy of your home.
4. Water-proof makeup in a tropical climate prevents smudging caused by sweat.
5. Keep your hair neat and tidy, and please, keep it out of other people’s faces but don’t brush it in public.
6. Fragrance is whatever form of cologne, eau de toilette, lotion, perfume should be subtle and mysterious. Not overwhelming and sneeze-inducing.(achoo! -peanut)
   

No, NO, NO, GUYS!!  

Men dress more simply than women, which does not mean that they have an easier time remembering a few basic rules, starting with the NO-NO’s:

1. A short-sleeved shirt or T-shirt under a blazer or coat that’s part of a suit. NO!
   What goes under a jacket? a shirt with long sleeves, in white or a pale color, plain or in the thinnest stripes. YES!
2. Loud colors on pants. NO! unless worn by clowns, comedians and entertainers following a script. Loud colors are perfectly all right for beachwear, casual tops, and other leisure wear.
3. Heavy jewelry encrusted with stones. NO!
4. Sockless in leather and patent shoes. NO! if you must go sans socks, wear sandals.
5. Printed shirts in loud colors and in silk (synthetic or otherwise). NO! except at night.
6. Jens, shorts, sneakers, sleeveless shirts, collarless shirts for going to a party. NO!
   You will be breaking the dess code and your host’s/hostess’ heart.
7. Necktie paired with a patterned or printed shirt. NO!
8. Necktie paired with a crumpled shirt. NO!
9. Necktie with shortsleeve shirt. NO!
10. Necktie with jeans and casual slacks. NO!

Guys!

Jeans are attractive with shirt tucked in if you have a tight butt to show. (this not so important for me, but it is for some people i guess – peanut)

Keep two neckties, one for a power lunch, one for dating.

The best colors for socks, and you need only two colors, are black (for your black shoes) and

white (for rubber shoes, tennis shoes, etc..).

Socks must stay high enough above the ankles to cover your legs when you cross them.

White handkerchiefs are better than colored ones.

Embroidered monograms were not designed to be conspicuous.

Wear dark suits at night, for formal  occasions, and in winter.

If you can have only one blazer, have it in a navy blue.

LIGHT UP, LIGHTEN UP

All smokers should be courteous and respect the rights of all nonsmokers.

Minors should not smoke. No one should see them tobacco products.

Smokers should respect the fact that some nonsmokers simply do not want to be near secondhand smoke.

Smokers can ask before they light up, “May I?” It’s as simple as that.

Nonsmokers can show smokers that they recognize that there’s a place for them to enjoy a cigarette in a seperate, designated smoking area.

*SMOKING IS DANGEROUS FOR YOUR HEALTH AND BREATH. I’M JUST SAYING….and I am not endorsing smoking at all – peanut

First Date

If you’re nervous, so is she. So are her parents.

Put everyone, including yourself, at ease by not trying to be someone you’re not.

It helps if you’re properly attired and groomed. If you’re going to dancing, the dress code in most discos and dance clubs is semi-formal, though this term is used loosely. Another way to describe it is casual chic.

GUYS. Wear a shirt with a collar, whether it’s short or long-sleeved. Slacks are better than jeans.

No-no’s include sneakers, rubber shoes, and sandals. The way to go is comfortable dress shoes. Leave the baseball cap in the baseball field, please.

GIRLS. It’s simpler to say what not to wear. No sneakers, no shorts, no T-shirts. Do wear whatever is in style, as long as you can get away with it, in it, anything from the little black dress to jeans and a tank top. Flat shoes or pumps with nine-inch heels are okay for dancing (HAHA). Unless you’re a real expert, stilettos could hurt you, and not only your feet.

Your secret weapon: Use a good deodorant or anti-perspirant. But avoid strong perfumes.

You’ll probably see a lot of people you know.

Don’t leave your date alone when you socialize.

Introduce him/her to them, but don’t spend more time with them than your date.

On the dance floor, don’t take up too much room. If you don’t dance too well, keep your steps simple.

If you’re an expert, don’t be too eager to show off. Try not to keep looking on other people.

While dancing, restrain the urge to strike up conversation. This isn’t the time to share your thoughts about life.

Avoid marathon dancing to he point of exhaustion,or getting your clothes soaked in sweat while you try to catch your breathe.

After two or three numbers, you should be ready to take a break. Don’t be embarassed to say you’re tired.

A disco is a perfect place for a first date because conversation is light. When you can’t think of anything more to say, you can always get back on the dance floor!

TABLE MATTERS!

A table setting includes plates, glasses, spoons, forks and knives, napkins.DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY ALL THAT DISPLAY   OF CHINA, silver and crystal. Keep in mind that your host or the caterer has arranged the tableware according to the food that will be served. As each course arrives on the table, use the utensils in order of their position – start witht he outermost ones, from left side and right side, moving in toward the plate.

No matter how complicated the setting may appear at first glance, know that there won’t be more than four pieces of any group at any one time – no more than four glasses, no more than four knives – besides which, as the dinner progresses, the waiter will be taking away used utensils, course after course.

On the right, knives are placed witht he blade facing the plate. The dessert fork on top of the plate has its handle pointing left because the fork is held with the left hand. The dessert spoon, also on top of
the plate, has its handle pointing right because the spoon is held with the right hand.

Napkin is found on the left or at the center of the big plate.

Glasses on the right. Knives and spoon on the right. Forks on the left Dessert fork and spoon above dinner plate. Use outermost utensils first, going   in toward plate.

Some DO’s and DON’Ts

Pick up the napkin with your left hand when you see your host  doing so. Unfold and place it gently on your lap If you find that one of your utensils is for some reason, not well-polished or has some leftover food particle clinging to it, simply ask your waiter to replace it instead of trying to wipe it clean with your napkin.

If you don’t know what you’re eating, don’t be too shy to ask. You are not expected to know everything.

If you don’t like what you are eating, don’t be too shy to spit it out but do it inconspicuously.

As much as possible, keep your plate neat and tidy and try not to leave food on your plate.

Do not eat from your neighbor’s plate. If you want to try his food, ask for a small piece and put it on your plate for a spare one.

Some food items are eaten with your fingers, for which you will be given a finger bowl: crabs, steamed shrimps with shell on, artichokes (with leaves), oysters, mussels, frog’s leg, asparagus (with branches), quail, pigeon, spareribs, fried chciken.

Dip your fingertips in the finger bowls, but it is still best to simply excuse yourself and wash your hands in the restroom.

DO NOT BLOW YOUR NOSE IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY, MUCH LESS PICK YOUR NOSE. hello? If you have to do so, it’s always better to excuse yourself, rather than gross everybody out -peanut

DO NOT BURP! If you just did, say “Excuse me.”

DO NOT FART! Excuse yourself from the table and do it elsewhere!

Excuse yourself if you have to leave the table.

Ask permission before you smoke! (better yet…don’t smoke..it’s bad for your health, breath and teeth – peanut)

Although it is permissible these days to use a toothpick, cover your mouth with your hand when you do. Never pick your teeth with your fingers in public. Go to the restroom to do this privately.

Do not floss in public!

Source: Discover the Joy of Life / Manners for Moving Up (by Julie Yap-Daza)

*thanks EP for reminding me about this book! Just had to share!

What’s not to celebrate?

Everyday is new
No day or week gone by that we are not blessed
Yes, we might have been stressed
But God always provides us rest!!!

Happy Sunday! Enjoy a new work week!

- peanut

 

 

²³ They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.

²⁴ I say to myself, “The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him.”

²⁵ The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him,
to the one who seeks him;

²⁶ it is good to wait quietly
for the salvation of the LORD.

Lamentations 3:23

Touch and Draw

Fun things to do at Best Buy: Playing with the new HP TouchSmart (they have Paint program installed). muwahahaha. “Fingerpainting” FUN!

(Vandal moment. Could not resist.)

 

HP Touchsmart

 

 

 

Feels like spring to me.

Ps. 30:11

heart

Woke up at 4:30 am today.  I had a bit of a tummy ache last night and was at a beginning of a bad lucid dream. Lest the lucid dream actually started, I opted to do some reflecting instead…then the urge to start slapping paint on canvas came. I just couldn’t shake it off so I just got up, started working on something (an art project) that’s been hovering in my mind for  a while. Not done yet. Will continue again later …perhaps…now off for some quality time.

phase 1 - heart

paint that heart

missing

I’ve missed you, WordPress. In fact, I am missing many things. I’ve been so busy lately with work. Though I’ve had time to get online line at night, many times, my mind is just too tired to do anything creative (I’m so sorry!).  I feel like I’m on the brink of a burn out. Vacation, anybody? *Sigh* If only money wasn’t a problem, I could think of two places I WOULD LOVE to visit.

So how am I feeling now? Is it possible to feel happy, sad, content and troubled at the same time? Must be because that’s exactly how I am feeling. Happy with some areas in my life; sad because I feel a little “alone” this week and because I am longing for some things; content because I know no matter what comes, God’s got me; troubled because — well that’s between me and God.  Not ready to talk about it. LOL. Hey, I’m just being honest. I am human and I’ll say it like it is. I don’t have it all together.

By the way, it’s been almost a year since I moved to California…crazy right?? I survived the most difficult year of my life to date…thank God. I am slowly recovering, gaining ground, strengthening my insides for another year. Lessons learned? Plenty….in life, faith, love, profession and relationships. Ahh…what would we do without God? And moreover, I do wonder how some people can go about their daily lives and not consider that there is a mighty God, who holds every minute of our lives in His hands. Something has to make you feel small and humble, right? I hope that something is that Someone.

Anyway, back to missing… I’m missing my home, my folks, my family, my guy (see you on Sunday), my friends, my art…

Though I’m missing all these things, I don’t miss God– and I’m not saying that in a disrespectful way! I say that cause He’s the only One who’s never left me through all of this. I’m glad You’re with me.  Don’t ever go away.

Reminding myself of : Jeremiah 29:11-14 / Hebrews 13:5

I guess I’m a hopeless romantic. so sue me.